Living enlightened in the real world, means to find your centre. To hold that centre no matter whether you are thinking in the head or feeling in the heart, the centre stays strong. That means achieving great inspiration but still having a firm grip on reality, grounded. That centre is

Beyond Resilience – the power hour

Resilience is a gift, but if it means just fighting off trouble, it is an automatic problem. Like “saving for a rainy day” has an expectation built into it. If you are not perfect already how will you ever be perfect? The habit of chasing is also the habit of

Self ~ I would rather have the whole world against me than my own soul

I ask everyone I meet, using word or sense, “who are you?” And in 45 years of travel across this beautiful planet, I have only been answered twice. Yes, I have heard people say “this is what I read, and I will be that” and I have heard, more often

Why I Love Life Coaching

I have spend half of my 45 years as a business / life coach in the high Himalayas of Nepal, Bhutan and Tibet. I’ve studied yoga in India and owned 3 yoga schools. I have an MBA and B.Mech eng. I love coaching people because it makes a huge difference.

A rich inner life… avoiding the handover…

As a life coach I have witnessed the good the bad and the ugly of relationships that sit behind some of the worlds most talented individuals. And what I’ve discovered about human nature is that it is sometimes happy to hand over aspects of life that make it dysfunctional because

Rescue or love

Rescuing the weak. Saving the broken. Feeding the impoverished. Inspiring the depressed. Fixing, repairing, rescuing…. These are jobs, not relationships. How many fall in love by thinking they are the solution? Their partner is messed up and they are the miracle cure. It feels like love, smells like love, but

The human spirit

The human spirit is a competitive animal. It loves competition. Give it a challenge and it is awake. Give it peace and quiet it rests. It does have patience. The greatest opportunity to tap the essence of your spirit is in your vision of life. A large global or even

Hard work is bad management

Who would promote a stressed, emotionally drained, worried, tired and hunched over in sadness individual? Only a cruel individual would add another KG to the back of an overloaded camel. It just wouldn’t be fair. Sometimes human nature and our ego get into a fight. The ego wants to be


Positive Self talk is essential to success. Words matter. The way we talk to each other matters, but the way we talk to ourselves is even more critical. The most important conversations we have are the ones that take place in our heads. This constant, internal dialogue, what psychologists call

Covid virus is the least of our problems …

Making a stand in life seems to be the new “brand” of freedom. It isn’t. It is the complete opposite. But when the voices of the ignorant become loud enough, the sheep follow until it hurts. Domestic voilence is the perfect micro mirror of this story on a smaller scale.

Outdoor Life Coaching Because People are Different in Nature.


The single key to success in life is understanding leadership. What makes a great leader, makes a great parent. What makes a great leader makes a great friend. It’s all connected. However, it’s all a matter of scale. What you can do for one person, or a family, you cannot

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